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Jay Slater's mother campaigns against online abuse after son's death

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Jay Slater's mother campaigns against online abuse after son's death
Key Points
  • Jay Slater disappeared in Tenerife in June 2024 and was found dead in July after a 29-day search.
  • His mother, Debbie Duncan, is campaigning for Jay's Law to combat online abuse and trolling.
  • The family faced severe online harassment, including false claims and dehumanizing treatment.

Jay Slater disappeared in Tenerife on 17 June 2024 during a trip to attend the NRG music festival, according to reports. An extensive 29-day search took place after he went missing, and his body was discovered on 15 July 2024. He suffered a catastrophic fall on the way back to his accommodation after a night out, sources indicate.

In response, his mother, Debbie Duncan, has launched a petition calling for Jay's Law to stamp out malicious online content, and she is backing the Mirror's Missed campaign and Missing People's call to end tragedy trolling. Debbie Duncan says the police have not been able to do much about the online abuse, and she and her family have been through hell and back at the hands of online sleuths, with the abuse dehumanizing her son and leaving her feeling slagged off and treated like she is subhuman. The abuse included prank calls and social media posts claiming to know where Jay is and dragging his friends and brother into it, Debbie Duncan says, and it became stratospheric after trolls discovered one of Jay's friends had a conviction for drug dealing.

I'm surprised I'm not in a padded cell.

Debbie Duncan, Mother of Jay Slater

After Jay's body was discovered, trolls claimed it wasn't him in the coffin and suggested digging him up to be sure, while others accused Debbie Duncan of using a GoFundMe to pay drug debts and claimed her whole family were drug dealers, she reports. Debbie Duncan says trolls make up their own narrative and people comment on the content to slag her off.

We've been through hell and back at the hands of so-called online sleuths.

Debbie Duncan, Mother of Jay Slater

It dehumanised our son.

Debbie Duncan, Mother of Jay Slater

It's been like living in a movie - but with no pause button.

Debbie Duncan, Mother of Jay Slater

I'm a mother who has lost her son, but have been slagged off and treated like I'm subhuman.

Debbie Duncan, Mother of Jay Slater

You name it, we've had it, on platforms from Facebook to Tiktok to YouTube.

Debbie Duncan, Mother of Jay Slater

Prank calls and social media posts saying, 'we know where Jay is' and dragging his friends, and even his brother, into it - 'Zak is too quiet, he knows more than he's letting on'.

Debbie Duncan, Mother of Jay Slater

People began to make videos with voiceovers about Jay being in a drug-fuelled underworld.

Debbie Duncan, Mother of Jay Slater

It was mad, a snowball, out of control.

Debbie Duncan, Mother of Jay Slater

They were sending photographs of photoshopped images of Jay, making out he'd been tortured.

Debbie Duncan, Mother of Jay Slater

Trolls said it wasn't him in the coffin and the only way to be sure was to dig him up.

Debbie Duncan, Mother of Jay Slater

People said I was using it to pay drug debts. They said our whole family were drug dealers.

Debbie Duncan, Mother of Jay Slater

It was just soul destroying, because nobody knows us, but yet we were judged in such a bad way.

Debbie Duncan, Mother of Jay Slater

We live in a nice house, we've all worked, we all have jobs, there's no criminals in our family.

Debbie Duncan, Mother of Jay Slater

Trolls make up their own narrative. And then people comment on the content, slagging me off.

Debbie Duncan, Mother of Jay Slater

I've visited the police station so many times, but there's not much they can do.

Debbie Duncan, Mother of Jay Slater
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